Wednesday, January 9, 2013

Cash Money

Finances.  Budget. These probably aren't your favorite words.  Not really mine either.  It takes work to make your budget.  It takes discipline to stick with your budget.  Discipline I thought I had mastered.

Isn't it funny, just when you think you've mastered something you discover there's more to learn?  Honestly, I don't know if I'll ever master this finance stuff, but I like the new track we're on right now.

Last August Steven and I made a decision that will greatly increase our outflow of money.  Mind you, we already live on very little.  Since making that decision, we have been making changes to the way we handle our money in attempts to save more money now.  Even though our next big step in life won't occur until later this year, we needed to start stashing cash away to prepare.  

I'm so thankful that we are not at this alone.  When we made our decision, we asked God to reveal to us how to accomplish this goal.  Little by little He has shown us ways to maximize our income and decrease our outflow.  One way was refinancing our house.  Yes, refinancing the house we have only lived in for 2 years!  The savings there alone was $260/month.  Crazy, right???  What's even crazier is how we came about making the decision to refinance our house.  Seriously crazy.  Like chasing a rabbit crazy, because this girl did not want to do it.  In the end, the process was so easy.  Neither Steven nor I ever had to go to the mortgage office until the day of closing.  Closing lasted all of 10 minutes.  It was awesome!  If you need a mortgage guy, I have one for you!  We've used him twice and both times we were blown away with his staff's efficiency and customer service.

I digress.

What I really wanted to share was the next step of what we needed to do.  Use strictly cash for non bill items.  Let me just say I have yet to watch the Dave Ramsey Financial Peace Videos, but I am excited to do just that in the next few weeks.  However, I didn't want to hold up our finances waiting for videos.  I wanted to start January 1.  So I looked at our budget for this month, left enough money in checking to cover drafts and pulled cash out that I budgeted for groceries, vacation (we are going to FL in March), car care (we have  older vehicles), clothing/haircuts, home improvements, entertainment/fun, and groceries.  I stashed the allotted amount in each envelope.  No more debit card swipes.  Ever.

I can already tell how much I love this method.  Before, Steven and I had just one envelope to cover 'entertainment and miscellaneous' expenses.  What really bit me in the butt there was I would see how much cash I had and would tell myself, Do it, Amanda.  You can totally spend $30 on going out to eat.  You cook all the time.  Reward yourself.  Do it, do it, do it.  Then I would kick myself in the butt later on down the line because what I really needed to use the money for was to get an oil change.  UGH!  

Having the money designated for specifics has helped me stay focused on what I can and cannot do.  Does it totally suck to see a really good deal on workout clothes (like $5 for an Under Armor top instead of $50), and not have enough cash in the haircut/clothing envelope to do it?  Yes.  Yes, it does.  However, it has me focused on what's really important.  I have plenty of workout gear.  I didn't need a new top.  I wanted a new top.  Yes, $5 is an awesome deal, but saving for our lofty financial goal is more important than fulfilling a short term want.

What kind of things do you do to save your family money?  I want all the good tips!


Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Da' Menu

I have so much to tell you this week.  It's all about new experiences and how I am now super cool because not only have I shopped in Whole Foods, but I actually purchased something from Whole Foods.  I know, I know.  I'll be signing autographs later.

In all actuality, I could possibly be scarred for life upon entering the establishment. I am all for living a healthy lifestyle, but GEEZ!  The frugal woman inside of me couldn't get passed the price gauging on some items.  However, I'll save my ranting and reasons why I'll go back later this week.  I have a menu to get to people!

Monday-Grilled Chicken Salad, Cheesy Biscuits
Tuesday-Black Bean Fritters, Taco Quinoa
Wednesday-BBQ Meatballs, Mashed Potatoes, Green Beans
Thursday-Pot Roast, Potatoes, Carrots, and Buttered Wheat Bread
Friday-Pizza Bread and Salad
Saturday-Beer Crockpot Chicken, Corn Casserole, Steamed Broccoli
Sunday-Dinner @ Mom's

Monday, January 7, 2013

Lots of Excuses

I have some really good excuses as to why the menu is not done for today.  Are you ready?

  1. Chubby Cheekers is walking.
  2. We have moved to a cash only lifestyle as of January 1st.
  3. I somehow committed myself to train for a marathon, but won't actually run a marathon race.
  4. I went to Whole Foods.
  5. Chubby Cheekers is walking.
  6. Little Man returns back to school today...WHAAAAAAAAA!
  7. I spent too much time on a home organizational website.
  8. I went to Monster Jam.
  9. Chubby Cheekers is walking.
  10. I just didn't do it, but I know I have enough food...Hmmm, now what to make?
See you tomorrow.  Hopefully with a menu. 

Friday, January 4, 2013

Chubby Cheekers...One Sick Dude

So last Friday I had to take Chubby Cheekers to the doctor.  He had a snotty nose and a pretty wet cough since Christmas, but when a small fever popped up I called the nurse line.  They wanted to see him.

While sitting in the waiting area I couldn't believe we were there.  He was crawling around and chatting it up with everyone in the waiting room.  The nurse calls us back and he's just waving and smiling.  We get to the room and she takes his temperature.  It was 101.3. Okay, so it was up a bit more. Maybe we did need to be here.

The Nurse Practioner walks in and checks his lungs first.  Super clear.  Then she tries to get a good look in his ears.  Welp, apparently homeboy has an issue with ear wax in his left ear because she had to remove a chunk about the size of Connecticut before she see.  I was thoroughly grossed out.  She said possible start to an ear infection.  Great, let's get some antibiotics and get out of here.

Just as I thought we had solved the problem, she tells me she wants to run a flu, strep, and RSV test.  What the what?  Why in the world do we need to do that???  So there we are holding down a baby who doesn't appear to be sick so she can get a good sample of snot, and a wonderful swab of the throat.  I was so impressed with Chubby Cheekers.  He didn't even cry.  Such a man of steel.  In fact, the nurse practioner made a comment about how laid back he was. Psh!  I knew he was putting on the ultimate show. Little Stinker.

We sat there for a good 20 minutes and little by little the results rolled in.  RSV...positive.  Flu...positive.  Strep...positive.  I am not lying.  I felt like the dirtiest mom alive.  Seriously.  How does a 10 month old get all that?  So we walked out with a antibiotic script and Tamiflu script, both of which taste like butt and cause diarrhea (antibiotic) and nausea (Tamiflu).  Perfect.  Just what we need.

Fast forward a week, and Chubby Cheekers is still behaving normally.  He's done with the Tamiflu and half of his antibiotic, and I'm still wondering if there were false positives.  I can't imagine a baby as young as him being diagnosed with so much and only running a 101.3 fever for half of a day, then BAM!  No more fever.  Eating fine, sleeping fine, playing fine. So weird, right?

So medical professional, enlighten me please.  Do you think the tests were accurate?  Did we just catch it early?  Do I have a super baby?  Is there such thing as false positives?  I'm a bit curious.

On a totally unrelated note, Chubby Cheekers has been toying with the idea of walking.  I would love for him to be up and about now.  I'm tired of his hands being all over the floor.


Thursday, January 3, 2013

Because You Need a Laugh

I came across this video and it had me rolling.  The video itself is funny, but what really had me was Steven and I would challenge each other to do something like this.  However, I would never be able to keep a straight face.  This girl has game!


Enjoy your Thursday!

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

2012: Pinterest Favs

As I reflect on the most influential moments in my life, I undoubtedly have to pay tribute to Pinterest.  How life has changed with this glorious online file cabinet.  The online sorting of rooms, decorations, kid activities, style, and recipes has me excited to revamp everything.  I love it.

Despite my attempts to pin so many decorating ideas, the only 'Boards' that I frequently tackle are the kid activities and recipes.  Today I thought I break down the recipes that have changed my families lives.  Recipes that have my husband pointing at his food, shaking his head, and saying, "MmmmMmmmMmmm!!!"  Those are the recipes I love.

Without further ado here is my Top 10 Favorite Recipes a la Pinterest...

10. Man Pleasing Chicken
9.   Key West Grilled Chicken
8.   Baked Fajitas
7.   Beer Crockpot Chicken
6.   Black Bean Fritters
5.   Chili Con Queso Pasta
4.   Baked Meatballs
3.   Crispy SW Chicken Wraps
2.   Dinner on a Stick

And our most favorite recipe from 2012 (was first made on December 31st...it barely snuck in) was...

1.  Rosemary Lemon Roasted Chicken and Potatoes

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{pic via Eat Yourself Skinny}

There you have it peeps!  Our favorite recipes from 2012.  

I would also like to give a shout out to my one true favorite meal.  


I didn't put it on the list because the cut of meat was so expensive that I will only do it at Christmas.  Seriously, I almost didn't purchase the meat because it was 40% of my weekly grocery budget.  Yes, I spent $40 on ONE hunk of meat!  However, after one bite I realized I would do it again.

Tuesday, January 1, 2013

2013 Fitness Goals

If you and I are friends on Facebook, then you have seen my daily posts about F.I.T Body Boot Camp.  I don't get anything in return from posting about it, but it's something I truly believe in.  Very rarely do you come in contact with a person who is in your corner as soon as you meet them.  I'm blessed to call Erica a friend, and even more blessed to have the opportunity to train under her and alongside her.

For the beginning of the year, I had to meet with Erica to get down to my skivvies and sports bra and take  'Before' body pics.  I'll post it for you later...SIKE!  (Those photos will remain under lock and key).  Then I had to come up with three S.M.A.R.T. fitness goals...


I really thought this was going to be easy, but I struggled.  I had to really focus on what did I really want to accomplish this year mentally and physically, and how was I going to do it.  After a lot of thought and self-doubt, I came up with these three.

  1. Complete the Warrior Dash on May 18th in under 50 minutes
  2. Have visible muscle definition in my arms and thighs before Spring Break (we're going to FL and I'll be wearing a swimsuit and 3 kids)
  3. Run the Full Moon Classic 5K in under 27 minutes
I think I can achieve these goals, but I'm not going to chance it.  Here's how I'm going to get there.  Things I'm going to do to MAKE sure these goals don't slip through my fingers.  Nothing is more frustrating to me than not achieving what I've set out to do.  So here's my game plan...
  • Train with Erica on trail running (she has the same Warrior Dash goal)
  • Work brief calisthenics into my running routine (Example: run 1 mile, stop and do 25 burpees, run 1/4 mile, stop and do 25 push ups, etc.)
  • Do 25 push ups every night before bed
  • Do 25 sump squats every night before bed
  • Continue to run M and W
  • Continue Boot Camp on F
I'm hopeful that these preparations will get my end results.  What are your fitness goals for 2013?  If you don't have any, I'm sure Erica could help you figure it out!  Call her today, 918.361.5255.